9 Ways to Downsize Before Moving

Dusty Rhodes • August 5, 2024

How to Make Moving into a Smaller Space Easy as Possible


You’re finally ready to move on to the next chapter of your life. Congratulations! Along with this well-earned breath of fresh air come a few things to consider, especially when you’re about to move into a smaller home. One of the best things about downsizing is that you get to customize the new space to your specifications.


It’s easy to become overwhelmed at first. Moving is one of the most emotionally draining and stressful events in life, with some people even likening the process to grieving. We highly suggest taking a deep breath. Allow yourself some time to embrace the change!


You’re free to choose how you want to move forward in the downsizing process, and that’s a powerful thing to have at your disposal. When you’re ready, we’re here to help. For now, here are some downsizing tips!


9 Ways to Downsize Before the Big Move


1. Plan ahead.


Before getting started, give yourself at least three months. While this seems like a bit much, having plenty of time before beginning your downsizing journey will allow you to approach the process at your leisure with a clear head. During this time, try to pinpoint why you’re downsizing in the first place and focus on that. No idea where to begin? Start here:

  • Less space will give you less to maintain in your home at the end of the day.
  • Less maintenance means more time spent doing things you enjoy (sometimes one of those things can involve doing absolutely nothing, which– let’s face it– can be incredibly cathartic in and of itself)!
  • With less living space, you’ll be able to travel more, read more books, enjoy friends and family, or get more sleep! The possibilities are endless.


2. Do one thing at a time.


When dealing with daunting tasks, the best advice we have is to take one small step after the other. You have likely lived in your current home for many years, collecting not only memories but family heirlooms that hold significant sentimental value. Take each item and allow yourself to reminisce. Does it still bring you happiness? Keep it! If not, someone else may find joy in it, so toss it in a donation box.


Are you thinking about passing down sentimental items like jewelry, books, framed photographs, and other memorabilia to loved ones? Then it’s a good idea to categorize them now and set them aside in labeled boxes so that they won’t spend time collecting dust after you move into your new home.


3. Discover your entrepreneurial spirit.


Use three months of prep time to get a head start! Gather items that are still good but no longer belong in your immediate future and start pricing them for a yard sale (start higher than you’d think– people tend to haggle prices down even if they’re already inexpensive).


Research when your city-wide garage sale takes place and participate in that, or take photos of leftover knick knacks, post them on online in places like Craigslist, and watch as the offers trickle in. Have a little patience with this process — there will be a lot of back-and-forth communication between you and folks bidding to purchase your items.


Keep in mind that you can also use Facebook Marketplace to give items away for free in “buy nothing” groups. People in need truly appreciate when you give away items in good condition in these groups.


4. Get help from friends and family.


Don’t think that you have to go it alone! Recruit family and friends to help sort items into “Keep,” “Donate,” “Sell,” and “Trash” piles. Bribe them with lunch or dinner! While everyone is over could also be an opportune time to distribute your heirlooms and things you want to pass along.


5. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.


Once your donation boxes and bags start to fill up, take them directly to your car so that you can drive them to a consignment store or Goodwill as soon as possible. Don’t pile them in the garage to deal with later!


Relish the thought of giving back to the community. You’ll feel so much better about the clutter that’s magically gone after having dropped off your donatable goods. So much more room for activities!

6. Eliminate the unnecessary.


One of the most challenging ideas to become at peace with is throwing things away. You have to convince yourself that it truly is okay to toss something in the garbage, especially if it no longer has a place in the life you see yourself living in your new home. It’s okay to let go, we promise.

  • Tip: If you absolutely can’t let go of something, then consider renting a storage space or handing a belonging to a loved one. Someone you know may need an extra couch in their living room, or they may have free storage solutions in their garage or shed.


7. Get rid of the gray area.


As decluttering goes, you may have to be a little more callous when it comes to separating items into categories. We suggest only having “yes” or “no” piles and no “maybe”. Getting rid of things you’re on the fence about will be one less pile to consider, and your task will be that much quicker to accomplish. For example, if you have duplicates of items, that’s an easy “no” that you can toss into the donate bin.


8. Give yourself some grace.


At the end of the day, it’s okay to hold on to things as well. You could technically get rid of everything and start from scratch if you really wanted to. Some things can’t be replaced or easily discarded, and it is important to distinguish those from excess. Take a page from Marie Kondo’s book Spark Joy and keep only the things that make your heart the happiest. Good luck!


9. Stuck? Hire a professional organizer.


To make sure you don’t have excess belongings after unpacking into your new home, you can hire a professional organizer. These pros can help you downsize to the right number of belongings so that what you have fits in your new house. You’ll have more space and freedom, and perhaps even some wiggle room to get new items that suit your new dwelling.



Source: Marketplace Homes



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I've had a lot of people ask me over the years, "How Do I Choose the Right Real Estate Agent for My Home Sale?" As a Myrtle Beach-area Realtor with 10+ years of experience, here are the questions I get asked frequently and my responses. 1. What have you learned about selling homes that you wish you knew when you first started? The biggest thing I’ve learned is that selling a house is not the same thing as putting a house on the market. When I first started, I probably put too much emphasis on getting the listing, getting it in the MLS, and getting people through the door. After more than 10 years in the business, I understand that the real job starts after the listing agreement is signed. You have to know how to price the property correctly, position it against the competition, identify problems before they become deal-killers, interpret showing feedback, negotiate effectively, and recognize when the original strategy isn't working. 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But I wouldn't necessarily choose the agent with the most sales, the biggest team, or the highest listing price. One of the biggest mistakes sellers make is interviewing three agents and choosing the one who tells them their house is worth the most. That's not necessarily the agent who will get them the most money. I'd ask each agent: How did you arrive at this recommended listing price? What properties are we competing against? What is your marketing plan beyond the MLS? How often will you communicate with me? What happens if we don't get showings? What happens if we get showings but no offers? How do you handle inspections and appraisal issues? How do you negotiate multiple offers? What happens if the first contract falls apart? The agent should have thoughtful answers—not just a sales pitch. 3. What's your philosophy on pricing? Price is a strategy, not a wish. I completely understand why sellers want to get the highest possible price for their home. It's usually one of the largest financial transactions they'll ever make. But the market doesn't care what a seller needs to get out of the house or what they believe it's worth. Buyers are comparing your property against everything else available to them. One of the worst things an agent can do is intentionally overprice a property just to win the listing. If comparable homes are selling for $400,000 and an agent tells you, "We can definitely get $450,000," you should ask them to prove it. Sometimes you can price slightly above the most recent comparable sales because of improvements, location, condition, or market momentum. But there needs to be a reason behind the number. The first few weeks on the market are extremely important. If a home is overpriced, you can lose the buyers who would have been most interested in it when it first hits the market. Eventually, the listing starts accumulating days on market, buyers begin wondering what's wrong with it, and the seller ends up making price reductions anyway. I'd rather price a home correctly from the beginning than chase the market downward for six months. 4. What do you actually do to market a listing? Putting a property in the MLS is the starting point, not the marketing plan. My approach is to make sure the property is presented correctly before we ever start marketing it. That means looking at condition, presentation, pricing, photography, description, and how the property compares to its competition. Then I want the property exposed where potential buyers are actually looking. That can include professional photography, video, social media, online advertising, email marketing, agent-to-agent exposure, open houses when appropriate, and targeted marketing depending on the property. But there's another part of marketing that gets overlooked: positioning. If you're selling a condo, a second home, an investment property, or a primary residence, the person most likely to buy it may be completely different. You don't market an oceanfront investment condo the same way you market a single-family home in Carolina Forest. After more than 10 years in the business, I've learned that good marketing isn't about doing the most things. It's about doing the right things for the property and the likely buyer. 5. What should sellers expect from their agent when it comes to communication? Your agent shouldn't disappear after putting a lockbox on your door. I believe sellers should know what's happening with their property throughout the process. That means communicating showing activity, sharing relevant feedback, discussing market changes, reviewing competing listings, and having honest conversations about what we're seeing. But communication isn't just about answering the phone. It's about proactively communicating. If we're getting 15 showings and no offers, that's information. If we're getting almost no showings, that's information too. If three competing homes just reduced their prices, that's something we need to discuss. I also think sellers should know how their agent prefers to communicate. Some people want a phone call; others prefer text or email. Whatever the preference, the important thing is that the seller doesn't have to constantly chase their agent down to find out what's happening. 6. Tell me about a time your negotiation or problem-solving skills made a difference. One thing I've learned over the years is that getting a property under contract is only half the job. I've had transactions where everything looked great when the offer was accepted, and then something came up during inspections, appraisal, financing, title work, or another part of the transaction. That's where experience matters. A less experienced agent may see a problem and immediately think, "We're going to lose the deal." An experienced agent starts asking, "What are our options?" Can we renegotiate? Can we find another solution? Can we bring in the right professional? Can we change the timeline? Is the problem actually as serious as it initially appears? I've learned not to panic when something unexpected happens. Real estate transactions rarely go exactly according to plan. My job is to keep the transaction moving while protecting my client's interests. 7. Tell me about a difficult listing that ultimately sold. I've had listings that took much longer to sell than anyone wanted and deals that fell apart after everyone thought we were headed to closing. Those are frustrating—but they're also some of the transactions where you learn the most. I've had a property go through multiple contracts that didn't make it to closing. At that point, the easy answer would have been to blame the buyers, the market, or everyone else involved. Instead, you have to step back and ask: What can we control? Is the price right? Is the property being presented properly? Are we attracting the right buyers? Is there something about the property that needs to be addressed? Are there terms we could structure differently? Eventually, persistence and adjusting the strategy paid off and the property sold. That's one of the biggest lessons I would give a seller: don't confuse activity with progress. A property can have showings, open houses, online views and even multiple offers and still not be moving toward a successful closing. The goal isn't simply to get a contract. The goal is to get you successfully to the closing table. 8. What makes the Myrtle Beach/Grand Strand market different? The Grand Strand isn't one market. That's something I think is incredibly important for sellers to understand. Myrtle Beach, North Myrtle Beach, Carolina Forest, Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, Conway, and the surrounding areas all have different types of properties, buyers, price points, communities, and market dynamics. And within those areas, you can have completely different markets. An oceanfront condo is different from an inland single-family home. A second home is different from a primary residence. An investment property is different from a home being purchased by a local family. There are also factors that buyers in this market pay particularly close attention to, including HOA fees, rental restrictions, insurance, flood considerations, property condition, amenities, rental income potential, and proximity to the beach. That's why I believe local experience matters. You don't just want someone who has a real estate license and can put your house in the MLS. You want someone who understands what buyers are looking for in your specific part of the Grand Strand. 9. What are the biggest red flags when interviewing an agent? The biggest one? An agent who tells you exactly what you want to hear. If three agents tell you your house is worth $425,000 and one agent tells you it's worth $500,000, don't automatically assume the $500,000 agent is the best one. Ask them to show you the evidence. Another red flag is an agent who spends the entire presentation talking about themselves but barely asks you questions. I want to know why you're selling, your timeline, what you're hoping to accomplish, what concerns you have, and what is important to you. I'd also be cautious of agents who make huge promises about how quickly they'll sell your house or how much money they'll get you without explaining how they're going to do it. And finally, pay attention to what happens before you even hire them. If an agent is difficult to reach, late to appointments, unprepared, or doesn't follow through during the listing presentation, don't assume they'll suddenly become highly responsive once you sign the paperwork. How an agent treats you before getting your business can be a pretty good indication of how they'll treat you after they get it. 10. If you were interviewing agents to sell your own home, what would you ask? I'd probably ask five questions: 1. "What would you price my house at, and why?" I want to understand the reasoning—not just hear a number. 2. "What is your actual marketing plan?" Not "We'll put it everywhere." I want specifics. 3. "What happens if it doesn't sell?" This tells me whether the agent has an actual strategy for adjusting when something isn't working. 4. "Tell me about a difficult transaction you've handled." I don't want to hear about the easy ones. I want to know what they do when things go wrong. 5. "What do you think I need to know that I don't want to hear?" That last question might be the most important. I want an agent who is willing to tell me the truth. After more than 10 years in real estate, I've realized that the best agent isn't necessarily the person with the flashiest presentation or the highest suggested listing price. It's the person who understands the market, knows how to create a strategy, communicates with you, negotiates when it matters, solves problems when they arise, and has the experience to know what to do when the transaction doesn't go according to plan.